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Abra Staffin-Wiebe ([personal profile] abracanabra) wrote2007-11-29 08:59 pm

And how are you?

I don't know how to answer when people ask me how I am. I guess the honest answer is, "Pretty well under the circumstances, but the circumstances are shitty." When they keep walking as they ask, I just answer, "Fine."

I am frustrated. There are 3 major things on hold until my leg is fixed. And I feel trapped, because I was working towards making some specific points of stress vanish, and I can't continue until I'm functional again.

Oh, but there's other stuff I can do.

[identity profile] xcorvis.livejournal.com 2007-11-30 03:29 am (UTC)(link)
As a Minnesotan, I both answer and expect people to answer that question with "Fine" and nothing else.

[identity profile] utilitygeek.livejournal.com 2007-11-30 02:35 pm (UTC)(link)
I'm sure I drive people like you crazy.

[identity profile] cloudscudding.livejournal.com 2007-12-01 05:53 am (UTC)(link)
Yeesh. That just makes it a total waste of air.

[identity profile] xcorvis.livejournal.com 2007-12-01 02:40 pm (UTC)(link)
This is true, but I don't mind because I actually don't want to talk to people I meet in hallways.

[identity profile] prof-vencire.livejournal.com 2007-11-30 07:57 am (UTC)(link)
It's generally best to use the opportunity to first look like you're about to say something, look confused like you just forgot what you were going to say, then a pensive face, a look of understanding blending into terror/heartbreak falling into the face that comes before sobbing.

[identity profile] cloudscudding.livejournal.com 2007-12-01 05:53 am (UTC)(link)
I like it!

[identity profile] utilitygeek.livejournal.com 2007-11-30 02:34 pm (UTC)(link)
Look down at you knee, look them in the eye, and say, "Wobbly," in a stern tone.

[identity profile] cloudscudding.livejournal.com 2007-12-01 05:54 am (UTC)(link)
Heh. Accurate, but I fear most wouldn't get it. Since I'm not wearing a knee brace anymore, I lack the visual cue to remind people I'm walking injured.

[identity profile] half-double.livejournal.com 2007-11-30 09:09 pm (UTC)(link)
When they keep walking as they ask...

This is one of my least favorite things about American cube culture (this seems to me to be where it's most prevalent). One of my coworkers and I were griping about it last week, so now we've started doing this thing where we'll walk up to each other's desks and say, "So, how are you?" And we try to come up with a somewhat meaningful answer.

When asked, I usually say, "Upright." It's true, and it's slightly amusing.

You could always steal the immortal words of my old bagpipe instructor: "Fine, as long as you don't want details."

[identity profile] cloudscudding.livejournal.com 2007-12-01 05:54 am (UTC)(link)
That's a great multi-purpose answer.