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So I slept in. When I woke up, I thought that wasn’t great timing because it meant I couldn’t take the kids to the Minnesota State Fair first thing in the morning like I’d planned. Turned out, the fair was closed for a while in the morning to do some post-storm cleanup anyway, so that was okay.

The first thing the kids saw was a mirror maze, but then they glimpsed the fun house on the other side of it and decided that they wanted to do that instead. They loved it, and I felt lucky to escape the rides section with only one expenditure!

Cassius’s must-do was the Haunted House, which we've never done before. Theia was also enthusiastic about this idea. So we made our way in that direction. Along the way, we stopped and visited the sheep barn and the Miracle of Birth barn. It’s a state fair; the kids have to see some farm-related things, even under (Cassius’s) protest!

We also found two of our New State Fair Foods. Mine was the Strawberries and Cream Waffle Stick from Waffle Chix. It was a waffle on a stick with some strawberry syrup and cream poured over it. It was only okay. Would not go out of my way to eat again.

Theia’s was Lady’s Slipper Marble Sundae from Bridgeman’s Ice Cream, just a few feet away from Waffle Chix. That was delicious! Chunks of ladyfingers cookies, strawberry ice cream, and a delightfully light lemon pudding.

The Haunted House was very dark and full of "monsters" banging "weapons" on the walls and grabbing at people walking through. Not my favorite thing. I wish the creepy scenarios had been slightly better lit, because mostly we didn't see anything at all in the rooms. Theia hated it and was extremely freaked out by strangers grabbing at her (though they didn't actually touch her--they did actually grab some other visitors).  Cassius of course thought it was awesome.

Theia's must-do was a visit to Monty's Traveling Reptile Show, of course. This makes the second (or third, if you count Twin Cities Reptiles) reptile zoo that we've visited this summer, since just last week we went to Snake Discovery.

The Giant Slide is a must-do for all of us!

Cassius's New State Fair Food was close to the Giant Slide. He wanted the Blazing Greek Bites from Dino's Gyros, which were basically chickpea tots with roasted red pepper hummus. Good enough, but not really worth seeking out specially next year. Fairly substantial, though! I felt smart for packing a couple of gallon ziploc bags to save leftovers for later in.

We spent a lot of time at the beginning of the fair, because as it turned out, that was where most of the stuff we planned to do was. We took the Skyglider up to the top of the fair after that, though.

At the far end of the Skyglide ride, the "Cats and Dogs The Exhibit" was a lot of fun. The kids enjoyed the activities, and I enjoyed the air conditioning! We cut through the Eco building and did a few of the activities, then pretended to be art critics in the Fine Art building. I found some favorites that were all very firmly outside of price range. But I took pictures so that I can enjoy them as backgrounds on my phone and laptop.

The kids did the Krazy Maze. While they did that, I waited in the block-long line to get donuts for us to share. The donuts were very light and delicious, but I'm not sure they were worth the wait. Other people were flipping out about them, though. 

We ended up taking the donuts home with us to eat later (mostly), because after the Krazy Maze, the kids wanted the pizza pretzel. This was their new State Fair Food last year, a giant pretzel stuffed with cheese curds, pepperoni, and secret seasoning, with pizza sauce to dip it in, and liberally sprinkled with their special cheesy garlic seasoning that must also contain crack. It is so good. And we found a picnic table side area beside the food truck where we could also hear the concert going on next door.

On the way out, we had a side quest for cotton candy (on a cone, Mom, not a bag!) and of course we got french fries with malt vinegar to go as we headed out the door. Cassius chose a new light-up sword as his souvenir, and Theia had a giant inflatable axolotl that she had insisted on getting earlier and then completely freaked out about the possibility of it getting damaged by random circumstance (or her brother) for the rest of the fair. It was super cute seeing her carry it, though.

All in all, it was a decent state fair. I spent way too much on food. I have a "budget" plan for next year, which involves me just handing the kids cash and telling them that when they're done, they're done. Having ziploc bags was amazing, especially because they fit in my pocket so I didn't need a bag to bring them. One of these years I really need to find the crop art exhibit. And I miss the agriculture building! That used to be my favorite thing to do on my own. Next year?


Me with Waffle Stick and Strawberry CreamGiant slide at the fair

FunhouseSummer Heat by Matt Olig
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Less than two weeks now until the end of school and the onslaught of summer vacation. Phil says I always act like it's this big scary thing to have the kids home and like I won't be able to do anything else for the whole time--and he's right. I do act that way. BECAUSE IT'S TRUE!

Kidding. A little. But I am trying really hard to finish writing the rough draft of Desolation Station before summer hits, and I don't expect to get a whole lot done after that.

Yesterday was my birthday. I didn't go collecting birthday freebies or do much this year, mostly because I was still recovering from Saturday's 5K. It's not as much fun going places when you're using a cane and prone to unpredictable spikes of pain in your knees. But Phil got a fancy "tuxedo" cake, and steaks, and corn on the cob. We had a very tasty dinner--the steaks were *so good*. Grilled perfectly, just short of well-done but still juicy. Penzey's Chicago Steak Seasoning is delicious. The kids got me a candle (Theia) and an "Ignore the Mess" mug (Cassius--very funny, kiddo!). Phil plans on taking me to a home store to buy a new lamp for the bedroom. And then after the kids were theoretically in bed, we watched Inside Man.

The 5K was on Saturday! Theia's been doing Girls on the Run this year, an afterschool program that culminates in running a 5K at the State Fair Grounds with approximately 3,000 other Girls on the Run, their running buddies, and their coaches. Theia needed a running buddy, and it was very unclear if I would be physically capable of this. Phil tried running. Once. And immediately got shin splints that ruled this out. Because of his recent work trip to China and how busy he's been at work with other projects, he didn't have the time to try and scale up training. I've been doing a Couch-to-5K program this spring. I tried this program last year, too, and it went really badly. I was basically always crippled after trying it. This year I was smarter and did a lot of physical therapy work before beginning running. I have really bad knees thanks to post-traumatic osteoarthritis caused by blowing out my ACLs and the surgery that replaced them.

And now I need to rest a bit and do more of my physical therapy exercises to recover.

(time passes)

So now it's one week until the end of school. ::runs around screaming with panic--except I can't run right now:: I am still getting lots of gnomes randomly stabbing my knees with daggers. This is what happens when my knee inflammation flares up and I get meniscus involvement and some other bullshit. I can kinda walk down stairs semi-normally today, though, which is better than the rest of the week. (Edit: nope. Thought I could, and then a gnome stabbed me in the knee while I was going downstairs and I nearly fell down the damn steps.) So that's severely inhibited my ability to do things around the house, plus I need to take time to ice my knees, do physical therapy exercises etc. I am not good at taking that time.

And then our dishwasher flooded all over the floor on Friday. We were able to get an appointment to have the repair guy come out on Sunday and take a look at it. He did, he has ordered new replacement parts for the filter and pump, and when they arrive we will need to make another appointment. In the meantime, we maybe cleaned out the filter enough that it kinda works? With close supervision? (Edit: also nope. It flooded all over the place. Again.) And there have been a lot of handwash dishes, which is a problem for me since standing for long Angers The Knees. But Phil's been great, and I made the kids wash some dishes too.

We had been thinking of maybe traveling to Wisconsin for cousin graduation parties, but appliance repair plans and long car rides being bad for knees nixed that. Instead, on Saturday Theia had a birthday party to attend at Johanna Beach, which is a nice little beach in Arden Hills that I'd never visited before but it was the perfect weather for it. And Phil and I looked around Home Depot and Target and surveyed lamp options for my "new bedroom floor lamp" birthday present. Eventually I concluded that modern lamps all suck (and are too short! what's up with so many modern floor lamps being under 5' tall???) and I'll be buying a Tiffany knock-off from the internet.

The rest of today is basically going to be struggling to get the kids to do their homework. (Edit: That went really badly. 5 hours of being screamed at.) Next week is field trips and special events and school wrap-up events. And then next weekend is 4th Street Fantasy convention for me, a writers' convention that I look forward to every year! As well as Father's Day, so I need to help the kids do something for that.

Hey, I finished a journal entry!

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On Tuesday (our first day without kids!), we slept in and then went and got donuts at one of the Lamar's Coffee and Donuts shops (a local chain). They were pretty much sold out of donuts, didn't have a lot of selection, and they didn't have creamer for their coffee, as the worker was kind enough to warn me. So we took our donuts to the coffee shop next door instead, which also meant we had a place to sit and eat.



Then we went to the Negro Leagues Baseball Museum, which is an awesome museum that I can't recommend highly enough. We meandered up the block and saw what else was in the vicinity while we waited for them to open.



The museum presents their collection with care, they have so many interesting stories and historical details and images, and they provide a really in-depth perspective of the rise and decline of the Negro Baseball Leagues. Phil also replaced his much-worn Monarchs baseball cap. Alas, our side quest to find a baseball-shaped ice cube tray was unsuccessful.







We had lunch at the nearby PeachTree Cafe'Teria, which checked off a whole bunch of "eat Southern food while in Missouri" boxes. It was located in a little strip mall next to a "we're classy, damn it" pole dancing exercise joint. I went with the 2 meats, 2 sides option and got meatloaf, baked chicken, collards, and mac & cheese. Phil got all different things except for the collards, plus he got peach pie. All the food was really good, except for the mediocre mac & cheese. We both agreed that the collards were REALLY good, which is not always the case! It was a huge barn of a place that was totally empty except for us, but then we were there at non-peak hours. They had a huge stack of to-go orders rolling out, though. It was a great choice of a place to go while in the neighborhood. Would go again, would recommend to anyone visiting the jazz and baseball museums.



After lunch, we went back to the Jazz Museum, which is next door to the Negro Leagues Baseball Museum. And there's a discount if you do both, although that isn't widely advertised. This...was a lot less my jam. There was a lot of jazz you could listen to, if you wanted to sit in a booth and play through the songs. And there were some interactive "listen to the difference" exhibits, where we learned that I *definitely* cannot hear the difference without help. It's a cool place, but it's probably best for people who are already musicians to some degree? And while there are interactive exhibits, they aren't the kind that would work well for kids. Their gift shop also did not have novelty ice cube trays, alas, although they did have drum and musical note wooden spoons that were tempting... And coasters of murals, which is a thing for me to remember if I ever do that mural photography project I've been pondering for ages.



On the way back to our rental, we stopped at Crown Plaza shopping center in an attempt to fulfill our side quest. The actual Missouri gift shops were *useless* when it came to novelty ice cube trays! I tell you, it's a shocking oversight. That and stylin' tank tops. Both in short supply. Who wants a t-shirt in hot weather? All that fabric. Ugh. However, there was a fancy culinary store where we acquired trays that make adorable small dolphin ice cubes and huge diamond gem ice cubes that last a shockingly long time in orange juice.

Back on the road, we also happened across a shop that just said BOOKS ! RECORDS ! RECORDS! BOOKS! in huge letters. Later we found out this was Mills Record Company (which explains the t-shirts in the racks) and Wise Blood Booksellers. This also seemed to be the gay area of Kansas City, as we saw a lot more welcoming rainbow flags there than anywhere else. This record/books store is basically the perfect combination for Phil and I, as I am happy to look at books for as long as he is happy to look at records. The book selection was extremely curated and very low on SF/fantasy, but in the used sale section I found a steampunk compendium and a little book about the Greek Art of War. And I acquired my new favorite pair of earrings here, a set of dangling knives with "Killing It" written on them.
They also had a badass ceiling mural.



For an early dinner, we went to Guy Fieri's Dive and Taco Join in the Power & Light District. Because, c'mon, Taco Tuesday. And excessive kitsch. How could we resist? It was kinda weird because there was a large performance stage ringed by restaurants that clearly do most of their business during events. And the elevators to the parking garage were locked, so we had to park and then walk around the block and go up creepy echoing stairs with some graffiti embellishments. But we persevered, because tacos.



And lo, there were tacos. And an assortment of margaritas. It was all tasty, but TBH, I think the chicken trash can nachos and the cheeseburger taco were the best. The gleeful trashiness of tex-mex americana was ... as advertised.



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Lots going on the last couple of weeks. The kids had their last day of school on Thursday, June 13th.



Then I immediately turned around and disappeared off to 4th Street Fantasy convention Friday - Sunday. This is an excellent, small literary SF and fantasy convention with single-track programming that I look forward to every year, and it did not disappoint. As always, I came away with my writing notebook full of pages of thoughts and at least a half-dozen new story ideas.

I got home Sunday at dinnertime and immediately had to get everybody packed and ready for a road trip the next morning! No decompression time for me.

We had talked with the grandparents (my side of the family) about sending the kids to them for a week in the summer, and it turned out that the best week for them was the very *first* week of summer vacation! We were not prepared for that. There was some scrambling and last-minute plans, but it all worked out pretty well.

We agreed to meet them in Kansas City and hand off the kids there. So early Monday morning, we dropped off the dog at dog boarding for the week, and the kittens at their previous foster (HUGE advantage to knowing the person you're adopting from!), and drove. As always, Diamond Jo's marked the passage of the border. NOT as always, we also stopped at the Welcome Centers along the way. Victory is mine!



The kids were pretty good on the drive down despite only having one game loaded on an old kid's Fire tablet that they had to share. Cassius had the 2nd Shadow & Bone book, and Legendborn, which we got from our Buy Nothing group. Theia is reading her way through the W.I.T.C.H. manga series, which our library has a very disorganized collection of (with weird gaps).

We got to Kansas City just before dinner time and checked into the AirBnB I'd found in Waldo Neighborhood. It was a convenient driving distance from all touristy Kansas City things, and there were a couple of restaurants etc within easy walking distance. (Listing: https://www.airbnb.com/rooms/48080241)



Yes, the "Where's Waldo?" jokes are plentiful there!

It was a small, charming 2-bedroom house on a very busy street. The owners did most of the renovating themselves, which showed in some places, and the modernist decorating. Definitely the right size for a vacation but it would be a challenge to actually live in the house. The kitchen was professionally remodeled and really nice and stocked with basic pantry ingredients and cooking tools, the dining room table was a good height for working on a laptop, the living room was fairly comfortable, and the wifi was strong. The air-conditioning was also powerful (especially in the bathroom), which is very important in Kansas City during the summer! And although the street noise was constant in the dining and living rooms, you couldn't hear it at all in one bedroom and in the other one it was fairly muted. In addition to the large flatscreen TVs, they also had a record player and collection that Phil took full advantage of during our visit.



The biggest drawbacks to the place were the exceptionally tiny single bathroom (seriously, it was so small they had to have a tiny house-style sink, your shoulder brushed the wall when you were sitting on the toilet, and there was literally no room for a wall-mounted toilet paper holder), and the driveway. A narrow driveway on a busy street with a very busy intersection uphill at the top of the block is a serious challenge for getting in and out, but we made it through our visit unscathed.

Anyway, it served us well. They didn't have ice cube trays, for some reason, so finding a (preferably novelty) ice cube tray became a side-quest for our first day in Kansas City.

My dad and stepmom arrived just in time for dinner. Dad wanted BBQ, but Elena's semi-vegetarian and understandably wasn't enthused about the idea! Poor Dad. His desire for BBQ was thwarted. We went to Taj Mahal Authentic Cuisine of India instead. Some of the flavors were a little different from what we're used to (the owner was Punjabi), but the food was really tasty and plentiful and spicy enough that the waiter double-checked with me before making Cassius's order spicy. I said yes, of course, and it was good. No pictures because I was too busy eating.

Then we handed off the kids and went back to the AirBnB to put our feet up in the blessed quiet, while they drove the remaining 3 hours to get home.
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Well, we had a Thanksgiving. Not the best one, but it did happen. Unfortunately, Cassius was the only healthy one in the (extended!) family. Theia still had a very "productive" cough, Phil was starting to descend into the abyss of the Worst Cold Ever, I wasn't feeling great and it didn't help that I was recovering from getting my booster. Meanwhile, in Wisconsin, Phil's mom and dad got covid for the first time. His dad still has a lingering cough, but his mom has bounced back. And in Kansas, my dad and stepmom were also sick, because everybody's got The Crud.



We had the typical foods: turkey, mashed potatoes, green bean casserole, slow-cooker stuffing, gravy, cranberry sauce, zwieback, and pumpkin and apple pies. Turkey: I tried the larded turkey cooking approach, in which you cover the turkey with pancetta or salt pork and then a wet dishcloth for the first part of baking. It was okay and produced a nice moist turkey, but the miso turkey is still the champion. Mashed potatoes: We had granulated frozen potatoes from Ruby's Pantry. They made quite nice mashed potatoes after proper adulteration. Slow-cooker stuffing: I added 2 diced apples, which added a little bit of tart sweetness. Quite nice. Zwieback: traditional Mennonite rolls. I tried making them for the first time and the rising wasn't quite right so they weren't properly round, but they tasted good. Pumpkin pie: Nobody in our family actually eats pumpkin pie. I threw it out today.



The day after Thanksgiving was Theia's birthday this year. I took her and Cassius to the zoo (masked, because The Crud) and she got all the birthday selfies. Birthday dinner of favorite pasta, unsuccessful Fruity Pebbles(?!?) funfetti-type cake. Cassius won Best Birthday Present by giving her an amazing WonderWoman book that he found at the Buy Nothing holiday present exchange.

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I am feeling seriously overwhelmed and not getting much done, because of my stupid hide-from-everything-and-do-nothing-useful reaction to stress.

Halloween was good! Phil thinks we got at least 50 kids. The kids and I were out trick-or-treating for a couple of hours, and they are still eating all the candy they got. As I mentioned before, Cassius was The Hollow Knight and Theia was Artemis. The weather was so nice that they didn’t even need jackets. That’s not a good thing overall, but it was pleasant for Halloween. While walking, we ran into friends of Theia’s who live just a couple of blocks away and go to the same across-town magnet school. Theia was really excited to see Hezekiah especially, so that was great.

There was an incident on Theia’s school bus of one kid looking up “sex” on their phone and showing other kids the resulting video. That’s not great. At least it’s a fairly straightforward “those are actors, real sex in a relationship is different (better!) than that, do you have any questions or feelings?” parent talk. She seems unfazed.

Phil’s promotion finally went through officially, along with a hefty raise to get his salary somewhat closer to competitive! There was so much bullshit he had to jump through around getting this, from applying for a job that he’d been told was “his” to having to “explain” to HR why he wasn’t getting paid what he should be for his current job. Ugh.

Barren yard, with grass seed

My big accomplishment this week was seeding our backyard with bee lawn! Fescue, White Dutch Clover, Self-Heal, Blue-eyed Grass, Yaak yarrow, and Creeping Thyme. This should help support pollinators and also be more pretty and low maintenance than our current grass. The advantage of seeding in fall is that I don’t have to rake the seed in, or water it, or fertilize it. The disadvantage of seeding in fall is that our huge silver maple tree was dropping ALL of its leaves. So it was rake a patch, start aerating the patch, re-rake the patch, finish aerating the patch, re-re-rake the patch, seed the patch, and watch the patch disappear under a layer of leaves. Rinse and repeat. Pondering seeding the side of our house, too, but I’m not sure anything will really grow there what with the dog’s crazy sprints. I also scored some Late Figwort from the Hosmer free seed library (organized by the mom of yet another of Theia’s chance-met friends!) and planted it near the fence, so we’ll see how it grows. It’s supposed to do well in shade and grow up to 5 feet???

12 leaf bags

Today I will vote early and then maybe treat myself to a croissant.
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Have I really not made a real diary entry in almost a year? I guess this is how I start most of my updates. Today is Halloween 2022.

Cassius is going as the Hollow Knight from the game, which involves a bodysuit, cape, and mask from Spirit Halloween, and a handmade Needle that he built out of cardboard and various colors of tape. Yay Cardboard Camp skills! We accidentally left it at Grammy’s house in Wisconsin after her annual Halloween birthday party last weekend, but she was able to mail it to us in time. Whew!

Theia is going as Artemis, in a generic “goddess” costume plus a bow and arrow. Both kids are deep into mythology, thanks to the Percy Jackson series and the Greeking Out podcast. And of course I’ve read them various myths and folktales as bedtime stories, since I have a collection of such things.

Last weekend we were in Wisconsin, as I mentioned. Phil went as a Plague Doctor (one of the most popular costumes for a while, I’m guessing) and I had a thrown-together steampunk Mad Hatter kind of getup, because when you already have the fancy Victorian jacket, top hat, and refracting goggles just lying around, you should use them. We helped prep for the party, had a good time, and then turned around and left the next day.

While there, we walked through the Shalom Wildlife Zoo, which is lovely in autumn, and I got some excellent photos of various wildlife. They have baby tiger cubs!

The real excitement there was when Phil’s dad walked out of the bedroom in his tighty-whiteys because he was having a medical incident the night before the party. He’s got Parkinson’s (recently diagnosed) and various blood pressure issues, but it turns out that wasn’t what caused the problem although it means he’s sometimes a bit confused and might not communicate well. Turns out the problem was a kidney stone on the move (ugh). But it was pretty scary for a while, as they called the emergency services and all. The kids were still awake, so they got to have that experience. Fortunately, everything ended well.

...And that’s my time for Monday journaling. Okay, real quick, what else?

Just had parent-teacher conferences. Cassius is doing well in school, mostly As although he doesn’t like having homework every day. Theia scored very low in math. The teacher thinks she wasn’t focused during the test, but she also needs to work on it more.

I’m over 1/4 of the way through my SF novel, Desolation Station.

I’m seeding our yard with Bee Seed as part of the lawns to legumes pollinator project. I’d hoped to do more planting, but I waited too long to get started and all the native plant nurseries have stopped stocking plants. I’m really angry at myself about that.

Phil is finally getting a promotion at work, but they’re managing it in a really annoying roundabout way and he has to justify why he should get a huge raise that won’t even get him up to industry standard and it’s just a pain in the ass right now but it will be great once it goes through.

This weekend I got to go to Alex’s All Hallows party and see the lovely improvements to her house (and finally reclaim my baking pan, LOL), and then our whole family got to go to brunch at Hillary and Doc’s and we got to chat with folks we haven’t seen for ages and the kids loved hanging out with other kids and playing video games. We also did Halloween at Midtown Global Market, I tried the new momo place, we did the scavenger treats thing at Lunds & Byerly’s (worth it!), and trick-or-treated in downtown Edina, which is also always worth it.

I need to figure out how to use Dreamwidth's picture hosting so I can post pictures... Maybe next time (in less than a year! LOL.)
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I only had one short story published this year, “Fear of a Stuntwoman” (Fireside Magazine, September 2021, 2,953 words). I am very proud of it! A divorced stuntwoman does what she has to in order to provide for her child. Warning: here there be unsexy, horrifying vampires. Free to read here: https://firesidefiction.com/fear-of-a-stuntwoman

Yes, “Fear of a Stuntwoman” is eligible for fantasy/horror short story awards for 2021. If you nominate or vote in such things, please consider it!

Why only one short story? Well, first ... pandemic. Once the kids were back in school, though, I put all my work time into revising and polishing Scorpion Dance, my lush, escapist contemporary fantasy thriller set on a luxury tour in Belize. It’s now sitting on agents’ metaphorical desks, so I’m getting back to working on more new projects of varying lengths. Yay!

Looking back over what I read that was published this year, I’m reminded of how many great books came out this year that I haven’t read yet. So that’s something to look forward to. Both standout books I read are part of a larger series.

First, Fugitive Telemetry (The Murderbot Diaries series, but it stands alone) by Martha Wells. So much fun! Such a poor, put-upon cyborg who has to keep solving the situations these humans get themselves into.

Second, The Last Graduate (The Scholomance #2) by Naomi Novak. The sentient(ish) magic school wants her to be an evil sorceress, but she just wants to graduate without dying or disappointing her saintly mom. Oh, and also she refuses to be evil because screw other people’s expectations. I love this so much, can’t wait for the next in the series. Best read after reading the first in series.

Short story favorites! John Wiswell’s “We Are Not Phoenixes” (Fireside Fiction, March 2021, 817 words) for its magic & mortality & the aching bittersweetness of life. And very recently, Marissa Lingen’s “Star Corps Crew Manual Section 15-A37: On Mental Dislocation” (Nature, Nov 2021, 847 words) for its hilarious tongue-in-cheek commentary on various dimension-shifting SF tropes and its earnest solutions.

Edited to add a late-breaking short story favorite! The Cold Calculations" by Aimee Ogden (Clarkesworld, 2021, 5540 words). Best story of the year because of all the feels, a course correction long overdue, and a rousing call to action. Highly recommended, hankie required.

Favorite new recipe that I cooked? The garlic aioli from Simply Ming’s steak frites recipe: https://www.pbs.org/food/recipes/steak-frites/ . Of course, making it properly does require cooking a steak. Oh noes. Whatever will I do.

Favorite new skill I learned? Driving! It’s true, I haven’t had a driver’s license since I was a teenager (and then moved to the mountains of India, where only professionals should drive). The pandemic provided the shove I needed to actually re-learn how to drive, and I took the road test early this year so I'm counting it. Although our family still only has one car, being able to drive it myself has given me a lot more freedom of movement.

What are your favorites from this year?

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Oh, hai! It’s been a while since I’ve written here. Glancing back at my last (beginning of September) update, some things have happened! I did finish revisions on the Scorpion Dance manuscript by my self-imposed deadline, I have started querying agents, and I am going to Worldcon (officially DisCon III, as it’s in Washington DC this year).

I had a lovely chat with Pat recently that straightened out my thinking on how to choose which novella in the Unkindness of Ravens world to write next, so planning that is on deck. In the meantime, I am writing a solarpunk retelling of The Nine Maidens of Dundee (their da keeps sending them to a well, where a dragon eats them--nobody learns).

Home life news from today is full of way too many tiny annoyances and a medium-size disappointments.

To my horror, over the weekend we discovered lice had infiltrated the household. ::endless screaming:: We were able to get in at The Minnesota Lice Ladies this morning. Bless the Lice Ladies, they’re doing the Lord’s work. And as I overheard, apparently pesticide shampoo treatments do not work as well anymore because lice have started becoming resistant to them, FYI, so combing it all out is the only truly effective treatment. And they do fancy braids when they're done if you have long hair! ...I am spending the evening doing All The Laundry.

The disappointment is that Phil's promised work trip to Germany has been canceled. He might get to go in January, but his boss also wants him working on other projects then. Of course, this trip was sort of supposed to be a “sorry we might not be able to get you a promotion before the company is sold, here’s a consolation prize” reward. If he gets neither, he’s going to be very cranky.

Both kids got their first covid shot on Friday, so that’s exciting! We’re inching closer to being able to allow them to safely do some of the ordinary kid stuff they’ve been denied for the last two years.

The kids are also in after-school classes now. Busing is a problem. They were getting home over 2 hours after they left the school sometimes, which is just too long (yaaaaay bus driver shortage). So now we’re trying to coordinate driving and picking them up.

New Oven!

Jul. 1st, 2021 12:52 pm
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I have a stove again! Or, I guess technically a range. The terminology is weird to me. Anyhoo, I have a lovely fancy new "black stainless steel" Samsung stove that has a convection oven and five burners, which I guess is a thing now. The middle burner is extra long and designed for a griddle. I would have paid extra for an all-mechanical knobs stove, one where the oven is also controlled by knobs instead of a digital display, but you can't get that.

Of course there is a problem. The hole in our floor for the gas pipe is too far away from the wall, and so that stove is sticking out an extra four inches until we can hire someone to come in, saw a hole in the floor, and adjust the gas pipe.

Because of the pandemic, I've heard that appliances have been tough to order and get in a reasonable time frame, but because of 4th of July sales, the stores have ordered more stock in advance. With that said, my first choice (by a hair) wouldn't have been delivered until the end of July, so we went with the second choice, which I'm still very happy with. I can COOK again! Dinner tonight will be Mennonite sausage and...hmm...maybe cornbread? Have to fire up that oven to let it burn off residual fumes for a bit first.

I think I might keep the electric teakettle out, though. It's nice not producing as much heat and getting hot water pretty darn fast.

So this huge semi pulls up in front of our house on our quiet residential street, and the neighbor's out and he sees that we're getting a stove and he says, "Oh, I thought it was mine. I'm getting a washer today." We laugh, the delivery guys carry in the stove, and then they go to their next appointment--next door. Yes, the neighbor's washer was in the same semi. LOL.

Let's see, what else. I sent out invitations for our 4th of July party. We have no idea how many people are actually going to show up, but we expect it to be pretty small. Some people still aren't okay with socializing in groups, especially with unvaccinated kids. And we basically didn't socialize at all during the depths of the pandemic, so all social connections feel kind of weird and tenuous and awkward, and that's just from our side.

Tuesday morning I went to the coffee shop and working on revisions. I like the idea of dedicating one day a week to *just* writing, as much as is practical for a parent. I do work better when I have a longer chunk of time to sink into things. I didn't do a great job of maintaining that focus last Tuesday, but I'll try again next week. I'm thinking only essential household chores, minimum effort dinner, no social media, working in the evening instead of relaxing. I'm probably going to be crappy at managing this, but nothing ventured, nothing gained, aim at the moon and maybe you'll land on top of a mountain, etc.
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I am declaring myself better, for values of "better" that include still being a bit of a snot-monster but having clear lungs and what feels like close to normal energy levels. The kids are going to be super-disappointed when they come home and it's not all-screens, all-the-time because Mom's sick.

This means a to-do list immediately starts ticking through my brain:

* Set up 4th of July party.

* Clean (house is trashed after a 3-day weekend and me doing very little since I got sick). Focus on the kitchen today, I think, because that's the space that needs to be better for a) stove installation, b) 4th of July party, and c) general livability.

* Write. Because WRITING is my priority, damn it. Which means it should come first

* ...and don't I have rather a lot of writing-related emails and tasks that are urgent or overdue (but not actually writing)?

* Figure out what's for dinner. We have an induction plate right now, which is SO much better, but food still requires even more planning than normal.

* Phone calls. Crap. So many phone calls. Need to schedule regular dentist appointments, garage door repair. Blech.

* Bills? Wait, was I supposed to pay bills recently ... but didn't? Urk. Need to investigate.

A few weeks ago, I walked around a corner and my left knee went all wibbly for a bit and then I had a swollen knee that I couldn't straighten fully for a couple of weeks. Anyone who's had knee injuries will recognize this as being a danger sign.

So today I got slid into the Tight Loud Machine at the hospital! My MRI appointment was postponed a week because I was getting sick, but now that I'm getting better AND I have a negative covid test, I went. I do not like MRIs. The last ten minutes, I'd been stuck in one position so long that things started to hurt. My iffy shoulder started to throb. My hairband was digging into my skull.

Glad that's over and I got hospital Panera as a reward. I'm looking forward to an inside look at my bad knee. It's given me fits ever since my ACL tear and knee surgery (over 10 years ago), so an updated status report will be good.

[Dagnabbit, I was trying to show a photo, but ofc Google Photos don't allow direct image sharing.]

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Still sick. But improving! My voice has come back enough that I can do an abbreviated bedtime story for the kids. We’re currently reading Where the Mountain Meets the Moon by Grace Lin (a Newberry Honor book), which is really a perfect bedtime story because a) it’s stories inside of stories, so you always have a complete story even though it’s in a longer book, and b) it has occasional illustrations, which Theia still needs to stay engaged with a story. And it’s just a fun read, and referencing another culture but very relatable. Also it borrows a lot of its plot points from The Wizard of Oz, as Theia keeps pointing out (my smart little literary analyst).

Where the Mountain Meets the Moon

I had enough energy yesterday to carry laundry to the basement, put in a couple of minutes cleaning the bathroom, water the raspberry transplants (right before it started raining, ha!), fold some laundry while sitting down, and drive to the library to pick up the kids’ book holds before they were returned. We waited for that Zelda book for like 6 months, and it would have been several more months if we’d had to start over with holds. I do like that we have a thing now where we just wear masks if we have to go out in public when we’re under the weather. Let’s keep that.

I got my raspberry bush transplants from a neighbor down the block (via the Buy Nothing Group) and put them in right before the heat wave. That was not so great for them. They mostly look like dead dried things now, but some of them have tiny new leaves or a green stem, so I’m going to keep watering them. The real test will be if they come back next year. It would be great to have raspberry bushes along bottom of the hill by our front fence--right now nothing really grows there but weeds, it isn’t mowable, etc.

Other that that, not much. Listening to a webinar on writing better back cover copy.

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I am trying a 10-minute morning journaling thing. We shall see. I imagine it will be some part brain dump, some part to-do list, some part memories. Will I even be typing it normally, or will I be handwriting it? I like the idea of posting it so it can be seen again in memories or shared with others, but I also like the quietness of the habit of morning handwriting. We will see. There’s no reason I couldn’t do both, I guess.

The kids loved their first week of summer school. They both came home on the first day claiming to already have best friends, which is status quo for Theia and a delightful surprise for Cassius. Cassius’s class has been biking every day (for, he says, 2 hours?) between parks and then having some playtime at the park. Good thing he got competent on biking in the week before summer school started! Theia spent a lot of her time this first week making a unicorn head pinata, which she proudly brought home. We bought candy and she made special Model Magic sculptures, and then she made individual treat bags and stuffed them inside. We hung the unicorn head pinata on the Russian olive tree in our front yard and walloped it good until all the strings holding it up broke, and then we had batting practice until it split open. Good fun was had by all.

Phil DM’d a one-shot for the Sons’ D&D Friday night. Sounds like it went well. He could use my webcam to point at the board so they could see what was going on. That little purchase has really paid for itself in the last year and a half. I spent the evening curled up on the couch reading a book, which has become my habit. It’s nice, because the living room is quiet with the TV off and so reading is a lot easier. I’m almost done reading Memory in Death by J.D. Robb, a pulpy SF procedural mystery. The whole series is set in a well-drawn SF future with some rough subject matter but engaging characters and loads of found family warm-and-fuzzies to balance it out.

Still no stove. It should arrive Wednesday and hopefully be installed Thursday. Phil snapped and bought a hot plate that will arrive today. I was doing okay cooking with the Instant Pot/Microwave/Toaster Oven combination, but when I got sick and Phil had to take over cooking, he was not comfortable with that.

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I'm neck-deep in revisions right now, and it's reminded me of my favorite trick for making sure that the beginning of a story pops. I pretend that I have one paragraph to persuade someone to read the rest of my story. I'll read from the beginning of the story until I hit that one paragraph that really speaks for the story. This can be a dramatic moment, or a bit of foreshadowing, or a great character bit. My job then is to figure out how to get that one paragraph moved up to within the first three paragraphs of the beginning--ideally the first paragraph.
 
I was worried because the novella I'm revising doesn't have the horror plot kick into gear for the first several pages. I didn't have that poppin' paragraph. But then I thought of the main character and what her deep motivation is, and I found that paragraph. It was the 6th paragraph, but I can easily move it up to the top.
 
Taylor raised her champagne flute as if she were toasting someone across the room, so it might look like she had a friend here. "Happy New Year," she whispered, quietly enough that none of the other party guests would hear. "Maybe next year, I'll actually have someone to toast with." - HitYourTarget!
 
(Do you have a writing question? Send it to me, either by replying to this email or by using the comment form on my website, and it may get answered in the next newsletter.)

What I've been up to lately, writing-wise:
 
I've paused in revising my urban fantasy novel, so that I can revise my horror novella. I have such an itch to write new words, but I gotta get it done. Deadlines help me a lot in getting work to that polished, submission-ready stage. In this case, I'm revising the horror novella to submit to Nightfire's novel and novella submission call. It's open until June 22nd: https://tornightfire.com/nightfire-slush-submission-guidelines/
 
I can think of all sorts of reasons why they won't buy my novella (too short, maybe not the right tone...), so why am I pushing to revise and submit it anyway? 
1. Don't self-reject. That is not your job.

2.The work of improving a story is never wasted. If they don't buy it, I can submit it somewhere else. If nobody else buys it, I have something I could self-publish. If it is never published, the work of revising it still improved my writing and editing skills.

(The rest of my writing markets newsletter is here: http://www.aswiebe.com/writing/archive2021.html#061821)
 
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Heh, when I share the editorial from my writing markets newsletter, I usually feel like I'm putting "business" in my personal feed, but I think I did it the other way 'round this month!

Thoughts in Passing
What does re-establishing normal look like? (Note: this is a long one where I'm kinda thinking out loud about boring routine stuff, so feel free to skip to Things Shiny or Useful!) For me, having my kids go back to school is definitely the most important step. My spouse is still mostly working from home (But he got his first shot on St. Patrick's Day 🍀, thanks to being an essential worker. Yay!). I still can't safely sit down to write in a coffee shop or at the library. My writer's groups and other literary events are all virtual. I'm a special guest at a summer SF convention (Diversicon 28: http://www.diversicon.org/), and they're still deciding whether it will be virtual or in-person. But within the walls of my home, it feels normal and that feels weird.
 
I'm working on fitting everything into a regular routine. "Everything" is a lot, especially since it includes scheduling time to catch up on everything that I let slide during the bad times. Here's my current day-in-the-life schedule:
7:00 - 7:45 AM: Wake up and/or sleep in. I am so not a morning person, but theoretically I'm trying to do the wake up at sunrise and start the day with a little writing thing. Very theoretically.
7:45 - 9:10 AM: Get myself and the kids ready for the day and get them on the school bus. I still feel elated every time I wave goodbye to them!
9:10 - 9:35 AM: Walk the dog, listening to writing podcasts on the way.
9:35 - 10:00 AM: Chores. Cleaning up after breakfast, getting the dishes going, etc.
10:00 - 11:30 AM: Computer time. I turn on my Happy Light for 40 minutes, make myself a mug of coffee, and sit down at my computer. I always start with a #vss365 writing prompt on Twitter. After that, I prioritize deadlines (like this newsletter or paying bills or critiques for my writing group) and handling submissions and rejections. Theoretically then there should be writing. My goal is 250 words, because I should be putting most of my time into editing right now, but I get stir-crazy if I'm not writing at least a little. I'm not a morning person, so I'm not at my most productive during this time.
11:30 - 12:00 PM: Yoga. Physical activity is so important when I spend most of my time sitting in front of the computer. I wasn't able to do yoga while supervising my kids in distance learning, and of course I'm not setting foot inside a gym yet, so this is a great addition to my routine. I've started doing the 30 Days of Yoga with Adriene series on YouTube. I highly recommend it! Putting yoga immediately before lunch makes it part of my regular routine and not something that I have to decide to stop and go do. That's a bundling technique. Physically, it also breaks up the sitting in front of the computer time.
12:00 - 1:30 PM: Lunch etc. I put away screens during this time, and read a physical book while I eat. Reading is so critical for writers! After lunch, it's again with the chores and cleaning and decluttering and trying to dig my way out of the pit o' doom that is my home. I subscribe to a couple of newsletters that give new cleaning missions each day, which helps.
1:30 - 4:20 PM: My butt should be back on my writing seat (I like an exercise ball as a seat. It allows for bouncing when I'm pleased by a particular passage of writing! 😉). My two main writing goals are the aforementioned 250 new words, plus a chapter or short story's worth of revisions. I am still working on getting myself focused during writing time.
4:20 - 5:00 PM: Retrieve children from school bus, get them their after-school snack, and get them into Quiet Time.
5:00 - 7:30 PM: Cooking, eating, and cleaning up after dinner. I am the worst at estimating how long it will take to cook dinner. Seriously, the worst! Sometimes I have a little time at the beginning before dinner if we're eating leftovers or pizza etc. Maybe this is a time I should use for action-needed writing tasks and miscellanea?
7:30 - 9:00 PM: Getting children to bed.
9:00 - ??: Attempting to relax, usually watching TV with the spouse or futzing around with emails and social media, while being frequently interrupted by my night owl child. This is highly unproductive time for me, but I never want to go to sleep at a reasonable time! I really should work on that. I know it would help with the whole waking up early thing...

Challenges, I have a few. I'm working on flipping back into productive mode during designated writing time. I don't have a good scheduled time for my writing-related tasks and miscellanea, and I've got a lot of those to do. I need to make sure that I establish good writing quantity goals, ones that I can sometimes achieve early so I get that burst of brain-rewards and also some free time. Establishing a "done now" achievement point, which is separate from the amount of time I have available, will do that. I hope. Stay tuned and find out!

(Do you have a writing question? Send it to me, either by replying to this email or by using the comment form on my website, and it may get answered in the next newsletter.)
 
What I've been up to lately, writing-wise:

Same old, same old... I had fun taking two separate staggered submission calls and combining both with one of my story ideas. I've submitted the piece to the first publication, and if they reject it, it will go on to the second! I love deadlines and submission themes, I truly do.

(Full Aswiebe's Market List here: http://www.aswiebe.com/writing/markets.html)

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Phil & Abra Staffin Wiebe

& Cassius & Theia


Dear Friends and Family,

 

Well, this is one hell of a year to try and write a Christmas letter in, isn't it? The pandemic, the Uprising (we live only a few blocks from George Floyd Square), distance learning and working from home, and that's without even getting into the politics of 2020. So much has happened, yet at the same time so little. To quote the Doctor, time is "a big ball of wibbly wobbly timey wimey stuff," and it has never seemed more wobbly.

 

Phil is still working for Suez Water, but now he is mostly working from home. He has refitted the basement to be his work office, using the ping-pong table as his desk, an old TV as his second monitor, and a rug from India to cushion the icy cold of the tile floor in our unheated basement. He also has an excellent foot-warmer in the form of our black lab dog, Hawk. A few days a month, he has to go in to work to run experiments on the machines, but mostly his life is virtual meetings and data. And driving back and forth to the school to pick up supplies and assignments for the kids, and our weekly school lunch boxes. Thanks to those school lunch boxes, we have enough frozen apples and carrots for the next five years!

 

Abra had surgery to remove her gallbladder this summer. She'd been trying and failing to use a restricted diet to manage the pain episodes, so once the ban on elective surgeries was lifted, she did the thing. Not losing hours to unpredictable pain episodes is a definite improvement! The other major change in her life is her attempt to switch from being a night owl to a morning lark. Before everyone wakes up is the only time she has to work on writing, so she's been trying to switch her schedule to wake up at 5 or 6 AM. Y'all, this does NOT come naturally! She's been enjoying attending virtual conferences and writing talks that wouldn't have been available before.

 

Abra has also been supervising the kids' distance learning since they were sent home this spring. It's a full-time process, from the moment they wake up until 5 or 6 PM. It's rough. There is crying and screaming and hitting and biting and running and hiding. Not every day, of course, but too often. We cannot WAIT for the vaccine roll-out. And our kids are some of the ones doing the best in their classes!

 

Cassius is 9 years old now. He has recently made the strategic decision that pajama pants are the best pants for the whole day. Hard to disagree! He is thriving in advanced math and has started learning piano. He loves all things game-related and is currently obsessed with Minecraft and Terraria. He also loves to read and to play imagination games with his sister.

 

Theia turned 7 before Thanksgiving. She had a gold- and Trolls-themed birthday decorations all over the house, and she enjoyed a birthday Zoom call and card shower. She loves all animals and insects and the weird in-between critters. Her list of desired pets: bearded dragon, chinchilla, hermit crab, kitten, spider, ant farm, owl, bat, unicorn. Her current goal is to be a zookeeper when she grows up--or maybe an opera singer. She loves everything pink, cute, and unicorn- or fairy-related. She also likes to help Mom cook.

 

At least in this, the Year of Our Pandemic and Distance Learning, we are all still here (no, literally here, all trapped in one house 24/7). Whatever circumstances you find yourself in, we wish you a 2021 worth celebrating!

 

With love,

 

Phil & Abra

& Cassius & Theia

Halloween pic
Christmas tree harvest
 

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I am not a morning person. I am SO NOT a morning person. But my goal is to get myself to that magical 5 AM wake-up-and-write that I've heard about. I'm not there yet. If you are trying to make the same transition, here are a few things that are helping me:
1. Gradual change. I set my alarm 15 minutes earlier. When I manage to wake up and stay up, three times, I adjust the alarm again.
2. Vitamin D + happy light as soon as I sit at my desk with my mug of tea.
3. Feeding the cats first thing, so they encourage me to get out of bed! I fear that this is not reversible.
4. Getting excited about what I'm going to do the next morning, before I go to sleep. It's a lot easier to wake up when you want to do something.
 
I have hopes that the end of daylight savings time will get me all the way to my goal.

(Do you have a writing question? Send it to me, either by replying to this email or by using the comment form on my website, and it may get answered in the next newsletter.)

What I've been up to lately, writing-wise:
I have an event coming up! If you like steampunk--swashbuckling steampunk adventure, Weird West steampunk, post-apocalyptic steampunk, or steampunk mystery--you'll like it. Come listen to me and three other authors read from their steampunk novels and then discuss steampunk. Bring your questions! Registration link: https://convergence-con-org.zoom.us/webinar/register/WN_sz53PUPiSFulsXmrogwI-Q


(This is the personal bit from my markets newsletter--the whole thing can be found here: http://www.aswiebe.com/writing/archive2020.html#101820)


 
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I have been attending so many virtual SFF conventions lately (right now I'm listening to a panel about contemporary Gothic fiction), and tomorrow I'll be sharing a reading with @LydaMorehouse (Does tagging even work on Dreamwidth? I'm out of practice. Let's find out.) and Pat Harrigan! And I just got my market list update out.

From the newsletter...
 

Thoughts in Passing

All these suddenly-online science fiction and fantasy conventions are a wonderful opportunity! But as a friend said to me today, the pro ("There's so much!") is also the con ("There's so much!"). I haven't found a good comprehensive, continually updated list of current virtual conventions yet. The closest is the Locus list: https://locusmag.com/conventions/ . It's a good list of conventions, but I advise clicking through to see what the convention is doing currently. Several conventions listed as canceled are doing something virtual instead. For example, this weekend I'm enjoying NASFic online: https://columbus2020nasfic.org

(Do you have a writing question? Send it to me, either by replying to this email or by using the comment form on my website, and it may get answered in the next newsletter.)

What I've been up to lately, writing-wise:
Preparing to do a reading at one of those virtual cons! Come to this free online event, enjoy some good stories, and see what happens when I discover that I can add video effects to a recorded reading. Did I tempt fate? Maybe. Bwa-ha-ha-ha!

But seriously, I expect this to be a great reading, and the Q&A at the end offers the opportunity for some interesting discussions. Enjoy performances by science fiction, mystery, and fantasy authors as part of CONvergence Online. Free, but registration is required:  https://convergence-con-org.zoom.us/webinar/register/WN_pCdcCtxXSXeW8v1SKEigmg
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And if you're interested in learning more about how to do a reading yourself, consider this Part 1 of "How to Do a Reading." I'm presenting Part 2, a discussion of the nitty-gritty of preparing and performing a reading, in a couple of months.
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Today's good things:

Being told that yes, Seward Co-op does sell paneer, they just hide it really well in the cheese section!! I am Very Excite about this.

Getting my new power cord and having my laptop successfully charge. I was quite worried that the laptop was dead.

Talking with people on my weekly Zoom social call. It helps.

Getting another steampunk author (Michael Merriam) for an upcoming panel.

Good things from previous days:

I started the day out feeling okay, with some energy and enthusiasm.
Free coffee, thanks to a filled punch card.
Theia cuddles.
Cleaning up one corner of Theia's bedroom. That was a BIG chore.
The kids' caterpillar started to move around again. I had honestly thought it was dead.
Phil found out about zoo camp.
 
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Trader Joe's "mini samosas" (not real samosas, but yummy) and homemade lassi (tastes most authentic made with water, not milk)
Reading Accepting the Lance
Picking up House of Shattered Wings from the library.
Getting the free Inventor Camp materials boxes, and being really impressed by them. The kids will be making flying robots!
Planning to do the virtual MIA family day. It feels good to have plans.
Story sale! I sold the reprint rights of "In Their Image" to After-Dinner Conversations



 

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When you have a lot of unstructured time ... or, on the other side, when you have very little time ... it's easy to say that you'll write sometime. When the time feels right. When you have a moment. When you feel inspired.
 
If the time hasn't been right for a while, it might be time to make a schedule. Start with a basic list of the absolutely necessary things you have to do in your life. Add writing. Figure out what gets done when, and then give it a try for a week. Adjust as needed. Everything else that is nonessential can get done when the time feels right.

(Do you have a writing question? Send it to me, either by replying to this email or by using the comment form on my website, and it may get answered in the next newsletter.)

What I've been up to lately, writing-wise:
Let's see. I watched TorCon panels. I did critiques and exchanged them for feedback on the beastie-in-progress that I need to edit. I continued to write to the #vss365 prompts. And I figured out that I need to schedule my writing time (see above) now that my kiddos are back in (distance learning) summer school at home, so I kind of know what my schedule is going to look like. Of course, I'm scheduled for gallbladder surgery in about two weeks, so everything's going to need to get readjusted during the recovery period for that. See "adjust as needed" above!

The rest of the market list update: http://www.aswiebe.com/writing/markets.html

...So yeah. Surgery in 10 days. Covid test and pre-op physical in 6 days. This is supposed to be a quick, uncomplicated, routine surgery with a quick recovery time, but all surgery has risks. Eeep.

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