Heh, when I share the editorial from my writing markets newsletter, I usually feel like I'm putting "business" in my personal feed, but I think I did it the other way 'round this month!
Thoughts in PassingWhat does re-establishing normal look like? (Note: this is a long one where I'm kinda thinking out loud about boring routine stuff, so feel free to skip to
Things Shiny or Useful!) For me, having my kids go back to school is definitely the most important step. My spouse is still mostly working from home (But he got his first shot on St. Patrick's Day 🍀, thanks to being an essential worker. Yay!). I still can't safely sit down to write in a coffee shop or at the library. My writer's groups and other literary events are all virtual. I'm a special guest at a summer SF convention (Diversicon 28:
http://www.diversicon.org/), and they're still deciding whether it will be virtual or in-person. But within the walls of my home, it feels normal and that feels weird.
I'm working on fitting everything into a regular routine. "Everything" is a lot, especially since it includes scheduling time to catch up on everything that I let slide during the bad times. Here's my current day-in-the-life schedule:
7:00 - 7:45 AM: Wake up and/or sleep in. I am so not a morning person, but theoretically I'm trying to do the wake up at sunrise and start the day with a little writing thing. Very theoretically.
7:45 - 9:10 AM: Get myself and the kids ready for the day and get them on the school bus. I still feel elated every time I wave goodbye to them!
9:10 - 9:35 AM: Walk the dog, listening to writing podcasts on the way.
9:35 - 10:00 AM: Chores. Cleaning up after breakfast, getting the dishes going, etc.
10:00 - 11:30 AM: Computer time. I turn on my Happy Light for 40 minutes, make myself a mug of coffee, and sit down at my computer. I always start with a #vss365 writing prompt on Twitter. After that, I prioritize deadlines (like this newsletter or paying bills or critiques for my writing group) and handling submissions and rejections. Theoretically then there should be writing. My goal is 250 words, because I should be putting most of my time into editing right now, but I get stir-crazy if I'm not writing at least a little. I'm not a morning person, so I'm not at my most productive during this time.
11:30 - 12:00 PM: Yoga. Physical activity is so important when I spend most of my time sitting in front of the computer. I wasn't able to do yoga while supervising my kids in distance learning, and of course I'm not setting foot inside a gym yet, so this is a great addition to my routine. I've started doing the 30 Days of Yoga with Adriene series on YouTube. I highly recommend it! Putting yoga immediately before lunch makes it part of my regular routine and not something that I have to decide to stop and go do. That's a bundling technique. Physically, it also breaks up the sitting in front of the computer time.
12:00 - 1:30 PM: Lunch etc. I put away screens during this time, and read a physical book while I eat. Reading is so critical for writers! After lunch, it's again with the chores and cleaning and decluttering and trying to dig my way out of the pit o' doom that is my home. I subscribe to a couple of newsletters that give new cleaning missions each day, which helps.
1:30 - 4:20 PM: My butt should be back on my writing seat (I like an exercise ball as a seat. It allows for bouncing when I'm pleased by a particular passage of writing! 😉). My two main writing goals are the aforementioned 250 new words, plus a chapter or short story's worth of revisions. I am still working on getting myself focused during writing time.
4:20 - 5:00 PM: Retrieve children from school bus, get them their after-school snack, and get them into Quiet Time.
5:00 - 7:30 PM: Cooking, eating, and cleaning up after dinner. I am the worst at estimating how long it will take to cook dinner. Seriously, the worst! Sometimes I have a little time at the beginning before dinner if we're eating leftovers or pizza etc. Maybe this is a time I should use for action-needed writing tasks and miscellanea?
7:30 - 9:00 PM: Getting children to bed.
9:00 - ??: Attempting to relax, usually watching TV with the spouse or futzing around with emails and social media, while being frequently interrupted by my night owl child. This is highly unproductive time for me, but I never want to go to sleep at a reasonable time! I really should work on that. I know it would help with the whole waking up early thing...
Challenges, I have a few. I'm working on flipping back into productive mode during designated writing time. I don't have a good scheduled time for my writing-related tasks and miscellanea, and I've got a lot of those to do. I need to make sure that I establish good writing quantity goals, ones that I can sometimes achieve early so I get that burst of brain-rewards and also some free time. Establishing a "done now" achievement point, which is separate from the amount of time I have available, will do that. I hope. Stay tuned and find out!
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What I've been up to lately, writing-wise:
Same old, same old... I had fun taking two separate staggered submission calls and combining both with one of my story ideas. I've submitted the piece to the first publication, and if they reject it, it will go on to the second! I love deadlines and submission themes, I truly do.(Full Aswiebe's Market List here:
http://www.aswiebe.com/writing/markets.html)